How it works
A calm, guided path from first thought to a plan.
Go at your own pace. Most people start with a few minutes, then return.
Start my plan
- 01
Create a private account
Your plan is private by default. Only you can see it.
- 02
A gentle introduction
Tell us what to call you and whether you'd like to begin with your story or the practical details.
- 03
One question at a time
Type or speak your answers. Every reflective question offers “Skip for now,” “I'm not sure,” and “Help me think about this.” Everything saves as you go.
- 04
Receive a draft
You don't need to finish everything first. Your answers become an organized draft; anything unanswered appears as “To be decided.”
- 05
Review and edit
Change anything in your own words. Suggestions are clearly marked so you can accept or remove them.
- 06
Approve, download, share
Approve a version, print or save it as a PDF, and share selected sections with someone you trust. You can turn off access any time.
- 07
Return and update
Life changes. Update answers whenever you like and approve a new version when you're ready.
What we'll explore together
A
Getting started
A few gentle questions so we can shape this around you.
B
Your story and what matters
The heart of your plan. Share as much or as little as feels right.
C
The feeling of your celebration
Picture the room, the light, the people. What does it feel like?
D
People and roles
Names here are preferences, not commitments. We never contact anyone for you.
E
Location and timing
Preferences only—nothing here is booked or confirmed.
F
Music, readings, and personal touches
The details that make it unmistakably yours. Song titles and links are welcome.
G
Practical arrangements
Helpful details for whoever coordinates. Please don't include passwords, account numbers, or medical records.
H
Messages and memories
Words for the people you love. Private messages stay private unless you choose to share them.
I
Review and sharing
Bringing it together. You can change any of this later.
We never ask for birth dates, financial accounts, passwords, medical records, or legal documents.